Pay it forward

I worked on Sunday, I needed to, to calm my anxiety brain and the million things it had to do.

After that there were groceries to get, Fridays trip had seen a fair few empty shelves. For some reason the supermarket is always busy on a Sunday, the aisles are packed with people and it can be difficult to navigate and side step the trollies.

On entering the shop I went in search of a basket, this was after all a bits and pieces shop and not a full one. There was only one left and both myself and an older lady made a beeline for it. She had this look on her face, both quizzical but also ready for a battle should the need arise. I reached the spot first, most likely because of my longer strides and of course the fact I needed a basket. I bent down, picked it up and handed it to her and said you use this one and I will go and find another. That wasn’t what she expected at all and the smile I received warmed my heart. I had no intention of taking the basket, my longer strides, even with a dodgy leg carried me on and I was able to find another one.

I like doing things like that, small little things that can change people’s perception in an instant.

Shopping done I headed to the next store, where only having two things to get I anticipated it would be a quick trip in and out, but it was busy there too. I approached the till and the lady in front of me clearly was doing her weekly shop, but thems the breaks, folks gotta eat. So I wanted in line for my turn, only for her to turn to me and say that as I only had a couple of things that I should go ahead. I asked her if she was sure and when she said yes, I thanked her and went about the business of buying.

You see that’s karma right there, the universe paying it forward and it made me feel good. It made me smile.

So do a simple thing every day, it might not mean much to you, but it could mean the world to someone else. Even something as simple as a smile.

7 thoughts on “Pay it forward

  1. Hi ho! long time no see, friend ….
    I hope you’re well – dodgy/alien leg and all …. πŸ˜– and in the spirit of your post, which really made me smile …. “instant feel good-ness” …. I thought I’d say “Ahoy! from the hills in Canada” – as opposed to just popping in silently. So hey there, long time no see – hear or speak – evil or silliness etc. Thinking of you and I hope you will smile just a smidge just because it’s nice to hear from someone from way back when …
    lots of hugs and tons of good stuff/ideas and more instant karma Jules …


    • Well that’s the biggest dose of feel good-ness that I have had for a long time, its really great to see you and know that you are still around :) Your words feel like a hug I have missed very much.
      I hope you are well and that things have been OK, because as life goes sometimes that’s the best we can hope for.
      It truly is good to see you and you got a grin from ear to ear :)

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      • πŸ˜πŸ’– ….
        I’m sort of in and out …. mostly out … crunching along for pain blah blah … but you know, doing the best I can with what I’ve got … LOL – which isn’t saying much, but it’s okay. One moment and day at a time. And the day’s when it’s just a slow buzz for the “stability” (emotionally, mentally, physically etc.) are “good days.”
        And so we soldier on, hobbling perhaps, but at least it’s an upright position … 😌


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