Daily Prompt: Secret of Success
What would it take for you to consider yourself a “successful blogger”? Is that something you strive for?
When I first started out, I used to think that in order to be a successful blogger I had to become Freshly Pressed. That line of thought caused me anxiety, because I knew I didn’t have the skills and the more I fretted about it, the less I wanted to write. After my first few posts I adopted a rather stupid ‘What’s the point’ kind of attitude.
When you’re new, it’s hard having no followers and no likes, in fact no one reading. Yes we all blog for many different reasons with varied end goals, but there are few who could truthfully say that they do not get a buzz when they attain new followers or post likes! So, whilst we all write for ourselves, there is always that little bit of us that craves the attention of others. We have a desire to entertain, amuse, educate and inform, it’s inbuilt.
As time wore on and I got a little better acquainted with the WordPress scene, I started to follow, read and interact with other blogs. I stopped writing for the sake of it, instead choosing to wait until I had something to say. I started to write for myself.
I can’t express how much I enjoyed the ‘Reader’ and I even started to look on Freshly Pressed in a new light, it was no longer something to be feared, in fact in one post I offered praise, as through it, I was introduced to amazing new posts and some equally amazing blogs.
Five months on I now have followers who comment and converse with me on a daily basis. They tell me whats good and what’s bad and their opinions matter more than anyone else’s, more than being Freshly Pressed.
Through the last 100 posts and my circle of friends here, I realised I didn’t have to be a successful blogger or spend time worrying about my lack of skills, I just had to be myself.
write from your heart, whatever the topic.. that’s the most important thing. ^_^
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Yeah, you’re 100% right :)
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YAY! If this is the first epiphany in a series of seven that is both a coming-of-age blogger story, an action adventure, as well as a fantasy, I’m all for it. :P
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Seven!! I’d trouble enough writing one lol
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This was a great post! I’d like to reblog this on my blog if you don’t mind.
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I don’t mind at all, I’m glad you liked it and I appreciate the comment :)
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:)
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Liking your blog btw so hope you don’t mind if I stop by every now and then :-)
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Feel free to drop in any time. :)
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Thank you very much :) and thank you for feeling I was worthy of a reblog, it is very much appreciated :)
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Reblogged this on Destination Unknown and commented:
Another blogger’s journey, similar to my own, reminds me why I enjoy blogging so much.
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I used to think the same thing when I first started and I tried to write for the Word Press team. I didn’t improve until I quit worrying about them.
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Sound advice indeed and I shall check out your writings when I get a chance if you don’t mind :)
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I would welcome any suggestions.
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AMEN on just being yourself. That’s all you can be anyway… so why fight it.
:)
Cheers,
Peter
A retired photographer looks at life from behind the wheel of an RV
Life Unscripted
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True, sometimes it’s easy to forget to keep life simple though :)
Thank you for your comment :)
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On my blog in my side bar I have that “freshly pressed” emblem with the words “part of the never been pressed club” across it….lol. My first six months of blogging I obsessed about stats, now I rarely look. This isn’t a job, it’s a hobby and should be fun. Here’s to happy blogging :-)
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So very true. I think when we finally realise that it makes things much easier and less pressured, it sure did for me anyway. I’ve gained so much more with the people I’ve met :-)
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